Introduction
I am choosing to write a book about my life in love or at least what I know as love. This book will share the path that led me to be who I am in relationship to woman. Lust and love have always been a substantial part of my life, but merely brief spaces in between a life on the observing end of love. My encounters with woman have been nothing less than spectacular, always entertaining and most times funny. The memories remind me of who I am and how I got here, things I never want to forget, things that guide me today.
My father was a professional football coach, it was a magical childhood for a kid who liked football and with that fun and fame came a lot of moving. I moved 9 times before I graduated from high school and attended 4 different high schools in four different states. I continued this gypsy notion into my adult life and have moved 34 times to date.
Establishing a meaningful romantic relationship wasn't and hasn't been easy for me to say the least, but I have never given up that pursuit. Today at 49 years old I definitely have my concepts of why my love life is the way it is, and why I seem to have the inability to make love stick. I question whether or not these notions are stale and I hope that in the exploring of these stories, tracing my love history, I will get closer to an evolution in my love life.
When asked the question, ”why have you not been married?” or paraphrased, "what is wrong with you?" I laugh and can only say that nothing is "wrong" with me, simply that I have not met her yet. I truly believe this. I have encountered many women and have shared levels of love that were very special, yet feel like I have never experienced the kind of love I have expected to find, the kind that lasts.
In the process of writing this book, I will be sharing my stories or rather monologues of women, love and the incredible journey I've had concerning both.. The stories aren’t ones you typically share, they confess my truths about sex and love. My intent, in theory, is to get closer to that which eludes me, a clearer path to love. So hold on tight and see where this takes us.
My father was a professional football coach, it was a magical childhood for a kid who liked football and with that fun and fame came a lot of moving. I moved 9 times before I graduated from high school and attended 4 different high schools in four different states. I continued this gypsy notion into my adult life and have moved 34 times to date.
Establishing a meaningful romantic relationship wasn't and hasn't been easy for me to say the least, but I have never given up that pursuit. Today at 49 years old I definitely have my concepts of why my love life is the way it is, and why I seem to have the inability to make love stick. I question whether or not these notions are stale and I hope that in the exploring of these stories, tracing my love history, I will get closer to an evolution in my love life.
When asked the question, ”why have you not been married?” or paraphrased, "what is wrong with you?" I laugh and can only say that nothing is "wrong" with me, simply that I have not met her yet. I truly believe this. I have encountered many women and have shared levels of love that were very special, yet feel like I have never experienced the kind of love I have expected to find, the kind that lasts.
In the process of writing this book, I will be sharing my stories or rather monologues of women, love and the incredible journey I've had concerning both.. The stories aren’t ones you typically share, they confess my truths about sex and love. My intent, in theory, is to get closer to that which eludes me, a clearer path to love. So hold on tight and see where this takes us.
